ENJOY YOUR INTIMATE SEX LIFE
Enjoyment of our sex life – is so unique to every individual. Our likes and dislikes our subtle tastes and needs – needs to give enjoyment – needs to receive our own enjoyment. Our enjoyment indeed may be to give to another. Sometimes we need to sweet and gentle sometimes we need to be utterly, spontaneously, outrageously passionate. And then sometimes something seems to stop our enjoyment! The something that stops enjoyment may seem rational – for example we may be annoyed or angry with our partner. Or the something that stops our enjoyment may seem completely irrational – we may find our partner thoroughly understanding, gorgeous and sexy to look at, fun to be with – and yet there is something that continues to stop our enjoyment. Maybe we have an idea that the something is about a difficult or painful memory? |
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Or maybe our own needs are out of sync with those of our partner?
On the one hand sex is a great mystery of life that resists our continuous attempts to explain or control it. It represents one of the few elements left in life that virtually pulsates with mystery, can easily overwhelm our thoughts and feelings, and sometimes lead to profound compulsions.
Emotional compulsions are often considered negatively as a failure of control or irrationality. But we might regard a sexual compulsion as an inner yearning.
A yearning for expression, intimacy, connectedness and so on.
The positive way to deal with compulsion is to bring imagination to sex, so that by fulfilling the needs at a deep level, the compulsion can be re created as something very positive.
On the other hand the something that is stopping you having a fulfilled enjoyable sex life is entirely unique to you. Unique to your needs, your beliefs and values and your life experiences.
My Work with you is to discover that something – which is stopping you having fulfillment and enjoyment – and to safely change whatever that something may be.
Be assured you will not have to talk with me about anything that you wish or chose to keep entirely private. Maintaining your inner privacy is of paramount importance to me in our Work together.
Please feel free to contact us and talk with me.
FREE ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION
Your first session will be an ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION. This session is FREE of charge. You will be able to ask me all the questions you need and also inform me of anything that you think and feel is important and relevant. I will establish with you what you need and want to achieve from your Therapy and structure for you a treatment plan.
However if I think that working with me does not seem to be the most effective method of resolving your difficulties, symptoms or problem I will be able to talk to you about other ways you can receive help that could be more beneficial.
If you have an idea of what you would like to achieve from working with me please go to appointments to book your ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION
If you need further advice or information about this problem we will be delighted to hear from you. You will find us friendly, professional and we will treat anything you may say or ask of us in the strictest confidence.
Email: sandie@excellentrapport.com
OR please telephone: Sandie – 0191 5110368
For calls from outside the UK telephone Sandie - +44 (0)191 5110368
Postal enquiries – Office address:
Excellent Rapport Ltd
Bridge House
30 Melsonby Close
Sunderland
SR3 2QL
UK
Your ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION will be booked for you at a time and date that is convenient for you and will last for approximately one hour. This session is Free – and can be done by phone, SKYPE, or face to face at my consulting rooms in Keswick, Cumbria, in the English Lake District. If travelling to Keswick for a weekly session is unwieldy for you I can often conduct Therapy Sessions by phone. However face to face Work, though not always essential, can often be much better, in that for example, by phone you may tell me that you are comfortable and relaxed, and face to face I can observe from you breathing, heart rate and so on that in fact you are uncomfortable.
Also go to Therapeutic Breaks in The Heart of the English Lake district for information on our accommodation – which is a sweet cosy cottage, which sleep four people right on the banks of the beautiful River Greta.
Many clients who have worked with me have often said: “I have several of the symptoms on your list – where do I begin?” during your ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION I will help you to discover where you need to begin, and often several symptoms or problems will be resolved and healed during the course of therapy.
Whatever your problem I can help!
