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ENJOY YOUR INTIMATE SEX LIFE
Enjoyment of our sex life – is so unique to every individual. Our
likes and dislikes our subtle tastes and needs – needs to give
enjoyment – needs to receive our own enjoyment. Our enjoyment indeed
may be to give to another. Sometimes we need to sweet and gentle
sometimes we need to be utterly, spontaneously, outrageously
passionate. And then sometimes something seems to stop our
enjoyment! The
something
that stops enjoyment may seem rational – for example we
may be annoyed or angry with our partner. Or the something that
stops our enjoyment may seem completely irrational – we may find our
partner thoroughly understanding, gorgeous and sexy to look at, fun
to be with – and yet there is
something
that continues to stop our enjoyment. Maybe we have an idea that the
something is about a difficult or
painful memory?
Or maybe our own needs are out of sync with those of our partner?
On the one hand sex is a great mystery of life that resists our
continuous attempts to explain or control it. It represents one of
the few elements left in life that virtually pulsates with mystery,
can easily overwhelm our thoughts and feelings, and sometimes lead
to profound compulsions.
Emotional compulsions are often considered negatively as a failure
of control or irrationality. But we might regard a sexual compulsion
as an inner yearning.
A yearning for expression, intimacy, connectedness and so on.
The positive way to deal with compulsion is to bring imagination to
sex, so that by fulfilling the needs at a deep level, the compulsion
can be re created as something very positive.
On the other hand the something that is stopping you having a
fulfilled enjoyable sex life is entirely unique to you. Unique to
your needs, your beliefs and values and your life experiences.
My Work with you is to discover that something – which is stopping
you having fulfillment and enjoyment – and to safely change whatever
that something may be.
Be assured you will not have to talk with me about anything that you
wish or chose to keep entirely private. Maintaining your inner
privacy is of paramount importance to me in our Work together.
Please feel free to contact us and talk with me.
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What can you do next?
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Choose a FREE ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION
You will be able to ask me all the questions you need and also
inform me of anything that you think and feel is important and
relevant. I will establish with you what you need and want to
achieve from your Therapy and structure for you a treatment plan.
However if I think that working with me does not seem to be the most
effective method of resolving your difficulties, symptoms or problem
I will be able to talk to you about other ways you can receive help
that could be more beneficial.
If you need further advice or information about this problem we will
be delighted to hear from you. You will find us friendly,
professional and we will treat anything you may say or ask of us in
the strictest confidence.
Your FREE ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION
will last for approximately one hour and can be done by phone, SKYPE,
or face to face at our consulting rooms in Keswick, Cumbria, in the
English Lake District. If travelling to Keswick for a weekly session
is unwieldy for you I can often conduct Therapy Sessions by phone.
However face to face Work, though not always essential, can often be
much better, in that for example, by phone you may tell me that you
are comfortable and relaxed, and face to face I can observe from your
breathing, heart rate and so on that in fact you are uncomfortable.
Also see 'Therapeutic Breaks' for information on our accommodation
–a sweet cosy cottage right on the banks of the beautiful River
Greta which sleeps three people.
Email:
sandie@excellentrapport.com
Or ring Sandie on 0191 5110368
(Non-UK +44 (0)191 5110368)
Registered Office address:
Excellent Rapport Ltd
Bridge House
30 Melsonby Close
Sunderland
SR3 2QL UK
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