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RESOLVE YOUR PHOBIA
At Excellent Rapport our core belief is that nothing is impossible
for you and for you to achieve all you need to do is persist in
your pursuits of what you want and need for your life to be
fulfilled
At Excellent Rapport our Goal is to persist in the pursuit of
your
Goal.
At Excellent Rapport our core beliefs are in your inner strengths
and resources and in your own inner inability to access those needed
inner resources and inner strengths.
Our pursuit at Excellent Rapport for the past twenty four years
(it is now 2006) has been the relentless searching for the
extraordinary Excellence within human beings and the study of
how
individuals achieve their own personal Excellence no matter
their chosen field.
Our premise is that if just one human being can achieve X or Y or Z
Goals no matter what conflicts or trauma they may have survived
then every human can achieve the same or similar success.
Success in anything of course depends entirely on what exactly any
unique individual chooses to achieve for themselves!
It is probable that you are reading this page because you have a
problem with a phobia or several phobias?
A phobia can range from causing you vexation to causing you
serious conflicts which affect the quality of your life and
sometimes negatively affects the life of those close to you.
A number of phobias we cannot logically explain! For example in the
UK it is illogically to have an Arachnophobia (phobia of
spiders) as spiders in the UK cannot cause us physical harm.
Whereas in Australia we
need
to have our instinctive fear of spiders lest we come across the
types that can kill us.
There is a difference between fear which is
INSTINCTIVE to our brain
and is a protective mechanism to a phobia which is a learnt
psychological
and
emotional response.
When people often ask us What we do at Excellent Rapport to assist
you to achieve your Goal our response will be that What we do is
as much about our attitude towards you as our Therapeutic
Methodology and Technology. Our Attitude is a sense of concern for
your difficulty and an equal sense of focused curiosity about who
you are what you can do and specifically exactly
how
you learnt your phobic response. We are in awe of your ability to
have learnt this response and then to be able to accurately and
continuously replicate the same response over and over again. This
may seem somewhat bizarre to you that we are praising your ability
to learn something so complex when this problem causes you such
difficulties in life? We are speaking to you in this way because
there is one thing that we already know about you and that is your
brain and mind has a phenomenal ability to
learn.
We will be using this phenomenal ability you have to learn by
first discovering
how
you learnt to have this response and once we know
how you do it we can utilize your
ability to learn a different response that will be appropriate and
comfortable for you.
Behaviours do not as such have a meaning Behaviours nearly always
have or
had a purpose!
What do we mean by this?
Sometimes it can be tricky to separate meaning from purpose but
let us consider a simple example: A client of mine was suffering
with a phobia of open spaces. Her phobic response had become so
debilitating that she could got leave the house.
This lady had been puzzling and considering that the reason she had
this problem must
mean
that at sometime she had maybe been lost, perhaps as a child, with
no one to help her find her way. She thought her problem was because
when she was at school she had to walk home across an open field
and she had heard stories that someone had been attacked in that
very same field. So, her problem must
mean
that she is afraid of attack.
Maybe both these scenarios were true but what is most important to
resolving the difficulty today is to discover the
purpose.
We discovered that the
purpose
that her problem was serving was sweet and simple This lady was
lonely as long as she was bound to her house people rallied
round, came visiting regularly, came and did her grocery shopping
and so on.
So, of course what we needed to do before we resolved the phobic
response was to access and create different life fulfilling
behaviours that ensured she would have the company of others that
she wanted and needed, in a way that would be appropriate for her. |
What can you do next?
Check out my 40 DAY COURSE ON MP3 or CD or
Choose a FREE ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION
You will be able to ask me all the questions you need and also
inform me of anything that you think and feel is important and
relevant. I will establish with you what you need and want to
achieve from your Therapy and structure for you a treatment plan.
However if I think that working with me does not seem to be the most
effective method of resolving your difficulties, symptoms or problem
I will be able to talk to you about other ways you can receive help
that could be more beneficial.
If you need further advice or information about this problem we will
be delighted to hear from you. You will find us friendly,
professional and we will treat anything you may say or ask of us in
the strictest confidence.
Your FREE ASSESSMENT CONSULTATION
will last for approximately one hour and can be done by phone, SKYPE,
or face to face at our consulting rooms in Keswick, Cumbria, in the
English Lake District. If travelling to Keswick for a weekly session
is unwieldy for you I can often conduct Therapy Sessions by phone.
However face to face Work, though not always essential, can often be
much better, in that for example, by phone you may tell me that you
are comfortable and relaxed, and face to face I can observe from your
breathing, heart rate and so on that in fact you are uncomfortable.
Also see 'Therapeutic Breaks' for information on our accommodation
a sweet cosy cottage right on the banks of the beautiful River
Greta which sleeps three people.
Email:
sandie@excellentrapport.com
Or ring Sandie on 0191 5110368
(Non-UK +44 (0)191 5110368)
Registered Office address:
Excellent Rapport Ltd
Bridge House
30 Melsonby Close
Sunderland
SR3 2QL UK
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